Developing Young Leaders: Why Competition Matters
Mike Collette • April 16, 2025
Why Competition Matters
Yesterday was a great reminder of what a little friendly competition can do.
We set up a simple 1-v-1 game: kids had to sprint, tap two cones, and race back to knock over a foam roller. Nothing fancy, just movement, focus, and a clear goal.
But something cool happened. The second it became head-to-head, the energy shifted. Kids were locked in. They ran harder. They pushed themselves—not because they were told to, but because someone else was giving it their all too.
Even the kids watching got invested—shouting encouragement, clapping for effort, reacting to every close finish. That sense of shared experience, of community rooted in challenge, is exactly what youth development should be about.
It was a perfect example of how competition, even in its simplest form, can bring out motivation and effort. Not for a prize, but just for the challenge of it.
More Than a Game: The Real Value of Friendly Competition
In today’s world of participation medals and well-meaning “everyone wins” culture, it’s easy to misunderstand the role of competition. But when designed thoughtfully and guided with intention, competition doesn’t diminish self-worth—it enhances it.
According to a 2019 study published in Frontiers in Psychology, structured competition can lead to higher intrinsic motivation, improved self-esteem, and a greater sense of personal accomplishment in youth participants
(Bonfiglio et al., 2019). When kids compete, they learn that effort yields results. They learn how to win graciously—and perhaps more importantly—how to lose with resilience.
They discover the value of hard work, discipline, and focus.
They get to ask:
“How fast can I be?”
“How far can I push myself?”
And, “What happens if I try just a little harder?”
The Pride in Performance
There’s a moment—right after a child finishes a race, or a round of a competitive game—where they catch their breath, stand a little taller, and smile. Whether they won or not is almost secondary. What matters is that they showed up and gave their best effort. That sense of pride? That’s not vanity. It’s the birth of confidence.
And when that confidence is built through movement, through play, through sweating and trying and doing—it sticks.
Not just in sport, but in school, at home, in friendships, and beyond.
Final Thoughts
Competition, when framed the right way, helps kids build confidence, stay motivated, and take pride in their effort. It’s not about winning — it’s about showing up, trying hard, and learning what they’re capable of.
At its best, competition doesn’t separate kids — it brings them together, showing them how to push themselves while supporting each other along the way.
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